For size reference, the gold stand is 4 inches tall.
We are accepting pre-orders for the rose earrings, which will have a regular hook. You may contact us to see if we have the long slim posts in stock prior to purchase to upgrade to. If another color is not specified in the notes to seller, we will make them in pink (shade may vary). Pre-Orders for the rose earrings will ship within 10-15 business days.